My wife was diagnosed late and while it explains a lot, it was still hard for me to understand. She would send me books to read and podcasts to help me understand the way her brain works, but they were often written FOR people with ADHD and were not so useful for me to adapt to her. We have been going through this ADHD Playbook together and it has led to better communication between us, and BOTH of us are learning more about how the other goes through life seeing things differently. We still have some way to go with the book, but it has helped explain things to me better, and helped my wife understand me too.
